Having arguments and fights in a relationship is normal. It is good for a healthy relationship. But it should not hold on for a longer period otherwise it can become ugly. So it is important to mend things as soon as possible to restore the love in your relationship.
What we normally witness is women get mad at their husbands over silly things because of their over-sensitive nature towards things and men are careless as usual. Little things do not bother men much; they find it silly to fight over it. But women are undeniably sensitive.
Men don’t get upset over homely things and try to keep things as simple as possible. They get upset on serious issues or when they get hurt or betrayed. There must be a strong reason for a man to get upset. It’s hard to find the reason for the silent treatment that they give to their partner which makes a woman go head over heels to make him happy. If you encounter these things in your life and you find it hard to convince your husband then you should read this article. We have curated a list of ways in which you can resolve a fight with your husband.
Send him bouquets-
Flowers are the best thing that you can use as an ice-breaker after a fight. You can send a bouquet of his favorite flowers to his workplace to change his mood. It is always a good idea to take the initiative. Sending him a bouquet will make him feel important among his peers and I am sure he will appreciate your gesture even being upset. You can tag a handwritten apology note along with the bouquet. Let your husband know that you walked the extra mile to make him happy. These days you can send a bouquet easily via online delivery services available.
A sincere apology-
Nothing works better than a sincere apology for your deeds from your partner. We all are humans and we make mistakes. Accepting and admitting your mistakes clearly in the first place is better than beating around the bush. Try to be calm while apologizing to him. Explain your point of view and try to understand his as well. Don’t start with a revolting sentence, be calm and have a healthy conversation. A quality conversation will help you to reach a common ground that is feasible and acceptable for both. Don’t fight over the same thing again.
Cook for him-
It is a very famous proverb that a way to man’s heart goes via his stomach. It is completely applicable and proven. If your man is upset about something then go ahead and cook for him. You can prepare his favorite meal to make him feel special and wanted. You can also try to bake for him if he has a sweet tooth and craves cake.
How many times has your husband surprised you by doing different things? I guess countless times. But now it’s your call, you have to convince him. So plan out some surprises for him. It can be anything like a romantic candlelight dinner, a long drive, a hand-in-hand walk, a getaway trip etc. It’s your responsibility to make him feel special. I know it’s difficult to do such things while he is upset with you but you have to give this a try. The toughest task is to make him do these things with you and rest everything will flow naturally. Don’t go overboard, just keep things natural.
Get him a gift-
Gifts are like bait during fights but an excellent ice-breaker also. You can get a gift for your husband, something that he likes or wanted for a long time. This might not end his anger but it will somehow pacify him. You can send him a gift at his workplace if you had an early morning fight. Accompany the gift with a bouquet and a love note for a personal touch. These days you can order bouquet online also.
I hope these tips will help you in mending your ways with your husband organically. It’s not going to be easy but it is important to keep trying to make your relationship and this marriage work.